October 11, 2023

WORDS OF RESPONSIBILITY

Swear words:      Replace with:can’t                       won’tshould                   choose to / want to / willmust                      choose to / want to / willought                     choose to / want to / willhave to                  choose to / want to / willnever                     sometimes / often / seldomalways                  sometimes […]
October 11, 2023

ADVICE FOR LOVERS ON THE SEARCH

If you want someone who’ll make a total fool of himself because he’s so glad to see you, get a dog.If you want someone who’s always ready to go out any time you ask, Get a dog.If you want someone who’ll be content JUST to snuggle up and keep you warm in bed, get a dog. (You can always kick him out of the bed and make him sleep in the laundry room if he […]
October 11, 2023

THE INVITATION

‘It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon… I want to know if […]
October 11, 2023

THE GIFT OF FORGIVENESS

One of my teachers had each one of us bring a clear plastic bag and a sack of potatoes. For every person we’d refuse to forgive in our life experience, we were told to choose a potato, write on it the name and date, and put it in the plastic bag. Some of our bags, as you can imagine, were quite heavy. We were then told to carry this bag with us everywhere for one […]
October 11, 2023

FINDING YOURSELF WHEN LOST

Stand still.The trees ahead and bushes beside youAre not lost.Wherever you are is called Here,And you must treat it as a powerful stranger,Must ask permission to know it and be known.The forest breathes. Listen, It answers,I have made this place around you.If you leave it, you may come back again, saying Here. No two trees are the same to Raven.No two branches are the same to Wren.If what a tree or a bush does is […]
October 11, 2023

THE FEAR OF REJECTION

Because you won’t let yourself go anywhere near rejection, the fear of rejection gets bigger and bigger in your mind.But the more you allow yourself to experience rejection, then the fear of it gradually diminishes until only a flicker is left.And that must remain, because that  is the very nature of vulnerability. The fear remains as a flicker, but if you are rejected, then that is all you will feel.Just a flicker of rejection. And […]
October 11, 2023

FEAR OF FAILURE

So much of life involves riskand the possibility of failure.If you are not afraid of failure,you will take many morerisks in your life.And the more risks you take, the more alive you will feel.You fear failure becauseyou fear rejection.The moment you give up seekingacceptance from others,your fear of rejection willdisappear.And with it, the fear of failure. – Copyright Author Lipanovzc 1995
October 11, 2023

AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN FIVE SHORT CHAPTERS

By Portia Nelson I walk down the streetThere is a deep hole in the sidewalk,I fall inI am lost… I am helpless It isn’t my fault,It takes forever to find a way out. I walk down the same streetThere is a deep hole in the sidewalk,I pretend I don’t see it.I fall in again.I can’t believe I am in the same place,But, it isn’t my fault. It still takes a long time to get out […]
October 11, 2023

YOUR LIFE

Your life is your train.You are the conductor and a passenger.How your train moves and where it ends upIs totally up to you. Your talents and abilities, dreams and goalsAre your tickets.Now, don’t get excited just because you have a ticketsIf you do not use it, you won’t go anywhere. Opportunities are stations along the way.If you are not at the station on time,You will be left standing at the stationWith all the other people […]